White guys like real looking hair I've noticed with myself but mostly through watching others that white guys don't tend to like the big flashy weaves and extensions so much.They want your hair to be taken care of, clean and manageable and if there's some weave in there as long as it blends in well then you're good.Not just a healthy size 8 or 10 but a nice slender 4 or even 2 is nice, 6 works but not nearly as well as a 4. My girlfriends and I have often joked about knowing when you've lost or gained weight.If you're getting white guys talking and flirting with you then you're on the slim side. Then you put on 10 or so and are getting "thick" and in general white guys don't want that.The concept of a black man in a relationship with a white woman is a "thing" that people have an opinion on, and that opinion comes with an entire set of stereotypes, fueled by racist ideology, a complicated past, and sometimes even pop culture.Kanye West once rapped about how successful black men will "leave your ass for a white girl," and then put himself into that box by marrying a white woman, furthering the pervasiveness of flawed, generic ideas about interracial relationships.
Coming to terms with the fact that there are some things about being black that they will just never get, no matter how empathetic they are.
Sometimes there are moments where you are super aware that they are white But hey, let’s try to make this work, right? Have you experienced any general interracial relationship weirdness?
wholeheartedly and all of the other well thought out PC answers here I thought I'd add in a dose of realism from my experiences.
I was taught the story of Emmett Till by my mother at a young age.
I don't think she did it as a warning as much as to be like, "This is something you should be aware of." He was 14. He got dragged out of his uncle's house and tortured and killed because he maybe flirted with a white woman. getting off brought a twisted, but understandable feeling of justice. verdict, my dad was now getting enough money to move his wife and three children to a nice house in a Chicago suburb.
But while most of my friends were telling me that my hair reminded them of Janet Jackson’s in , the guy I’d been seeing was bemused when he saw me in person with my waist-length new do. “I didn’t know your hair was…so long.” Let the record show that this dude is incredibly intelligent, but it was clear that black hair confused the hell out of him. I would never have to explain to a black dude that I was clearly wearing braided hair extensions! Here are 10 things you’ll only understand if you’re a black girl dating a white dude. You have to teach them everything about black hair.