Steve from Toronto—a 24yo web programmer, who's just moved in with his boyfriend, who he enjoys traveling with.He avoids the gay scene and feels let down by mainstream gay media.An older man’s going to be the strong, nurturing guy who takes care of her, teaches her, and treats her like a princess – the kind of relationship that she probably lacked growing up.Hey, I’m no psychologist – just your friendly, neighborhood dating coach. Whether we like it or not, there is nearly a full generation gap between 28 and 45.Then you can figure out for yourself which site is a better fit for your dating lifestyle.
Jonny from New York—a 22yo trying to make it as a DJ, but in the meantime is working at a café.But I do know women, and lots of women in their 20’s. A few women may bridge this gap for lust or money or dimestore psychological reasons, but most of the 28-year-old women I know would prefer to date a great, stable 30-40 year-old – who also knows what Snapchat is. But don’t forget, you and your younger girlfriends are the EXCEPTION. When I was in my late 30’s I became involved with someone 15 yrs. The age difference did not seem especially significant during the 5 yrs we were together.And the truth is that most of them are completely creeped out at the prospect of dating a guy who was alive when JFK was alive. Now in my mid 40’s though, the idea of dating someone in their 60’s does seem like a big difference in terms of where we each are in life. Is addicted to buying the latest music, going clubbing and having a good time.His friends-gay and straight-turn to him for fashion advice and tips on what tunes to buy.Harrison Ford being an exception for me as well though, I have to say.