We continue to identify technical compliance solutions that will provide all readers with our award-winning journalism.As a breakup therapist, and author of the blog and book, “Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You,” I receive many questions about what to do before getting back out there.The only way to enjoy being in a good relationship is to enjoy being in a relationship with yourself before a good partner comes along. is the developer of the Getting Past Your Past series of workshops and seminars, author of “Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You” (Da Capo, 2009), media commentator (interviewed and quoted extensively on television, radio, print and internet), speaker, relationship coach, developer of Getting Past Your Breakup bootcamps (both live and on-line), host of Getting Past Your Breakup radio show and author of the Getting Past Your Past and Getting Past Your Breakup blogs.
You should be a stronger unit together, but you should still be a strong unit alone.
Most of my clients and readers are coming out of bad relationships, many are leaving after staying too long.
Yet, one thing they all seem to have in common is that in the relationship they put themselves last or blamed themselves when things did not go right.
It is important to stay true to yourself and your life.
If this attraction doesn’t last, you don’t want to look around and see that the life you built since your last breakup is gone because you neglected it.
While you are dating or seeing someone exclusively, be sure to care for yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.