Consider this: Proverbs -25 Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.Put away from you crooked speech, and put devious talk far from you.It’s never been alright to gawk, and it never builds up – it tears down.It tears you down, it tears your wife down, and it is the start of objectifying women.
I would feel incredibly ashamed if she saw me looking and re-looking at a woman’s body. I often go on walks with our daughter strapped to my chest in this baby-chest-pack-thing. Watching someone walk with a cute baby is wholesome and I still don’t like it…People stare, and I’m not sure why – I look awesome and Dela looks awesome… I find myself taking different, less populated, walking routes.I can’t imagine how women feel when countless men look at them wherever they go ( 6) No one likes a creeper Ever seen a guy stare a girl down as she walks passed him, only to turn and stare at her again as she walks away?Let’s be men who give our undivided attention, heart, and purity of eyes to our wives because they’re the ultimate standard of beauty for us.Let’s be men who look at who God is and desire to honor Him with every action and glance.I can’t know for sure but the fact that I’m even asking the question illustrates the point: people wear less and I’m still not used to it. Where you look affects your mind, and what affects your mind inevitably affects your heart.