Once the picker has finished grilling the parents, they make their decision.Though before they come face-to-face with their date, they get to meet the ones they turned down.If she is nervous about it, that’s a good time to use the mini flyby to help her settle down.
Whatever it might be, they are always dying to know any little detail about your life, since you never tell them anything.
In their quest to find love, nothing is off limits, as the picker looking for romance gets to ask their potential suitors’ parents anything.
Mum and dad then get busy spilling the beans, on everything from their off-spring’s relationship history and grooming habits, to questionable celebrity crushes and cringe-worthy childhood stories.
Visiting Beijing on summer holiday, he decided it was a good idea to meet up with his girlfriend's family since he was in the country.
Expecting a causal meeting, he arrived at a big dinner of 10 family members, with the poker-faced father and smiling mother sitting at the center.
He hadn't expected such questions from the family of a woman he had dated for less than a year."If you're meeting the [Chinese] parents, it means you two (have made it), which also means marriage is in the near future," said Xu Yue, who offers relationship advice to both Chinese and expats while spending her time in Beijing and New York.